fix(installer): restart coredns when change ip, raise cri timeout

[dkeven]

• Background
  this is a cherry pick of fix(installer): restart coredns when change ip, raise cri timeout #941
  coredns also counts as a pod using host ip because the local network's gateway is often used as its upstream DNS server in the pod's /etc/resolv.conf, and it needs to be manually updated in case of a CIDR change
  the default timeout period of CRI requests is 2m in kubelet, and can time out during the middle of a normal operation like unpacking a large image on slow hardwares, we explicitly lift it to 5m to make it more tolerable.

• Target Version for Merge
  1.11.4

• Related Issues
  none

• PRs Involving Sub-Systems
  fix: also restart coredns when changing IP Installer#142
  fix: raise cri timeout to accommodate slow hardwares Installer#143

• Other information:
  none