Fix incorrect peer port autodetection and substream limit exceeded errors

[teor2345]

This PR updates our substrate fork to include 3 network connection/stream bug fixes:

A peer address autodetection fix, which works around a libp2p bug that pollutes the peer set with ephemeral outbound ports:

• [net/libp2p] Use raw Identify observed addresses to discover external addresses paritytech/polkadot-sdk#7338

Peer connection substream fixes, which correctly detect and react to I/O errors on connections by closing substreams:

• net/litep2p: Bring the latest compatibility fixes via v0.9.1 paritytech/polkadot-sdk#7640
• notifications/libp2p: Terminate the outbound notification substream on std::io::Errors paritytech/polkadot-sdk#7724

Close #3450

Some updates were required to other dependencies to resolve lockfile version conflicts.

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[vedhavyas]

Looks like of the 3 PR from upstream, one of the them is already in [stable2412-2](https://github.com/paritytech/polkadot-sdk/releases/tag/polkadot-stable2412-2)

Can we not ask upstream to backport the remaining two into the another stable2412 release ?

We can then pull the release instead

[nazar-pc]

Can we not ask upstream to backport the remaining two into the another stable2412 release ?

They will not backport it because upstream stable2412 uses older libp2p version from 2023. I backported libp2p upgrade that I did from master to our fork, so we are not stuck with it for another half a year.