Manage all CI versions through mise and use binstall (backport #7393)

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This pull request introduces changes to the CircleCI configuration, replacing various custom installation steps with the use of mise for tool version management. These changes simplify the CI pipeline, improve maintainability, and ensure consistency across different environments. This allows:

• Local tooling to use the same version as the CI version using a single version number source of truth.
• Allows Renovate to be able to understand version updates.
• Allows us to leverage pre-compiled binaries for both local and CI tooling using cargo binstall which mise supports
• Removes a decent amount of CircleCI YAML.
• Improve the local developer on-boarding experience for the repository.
• Different environments for CI and Windows and local dev.

Nuances

• To fix a Window-ism that wasn't worth battling: This changes the invocation of the cargo install'd xtask command to be invoked via $HOME/.cargo/bin/xtask (where it is installed after we install it from our source) rather than fixing the PATH. It seemed like a huge time savings to not go get that sorted.
• mise (a package manager) is installed on Windows using scoop (a package manager that we now install directly), rather than chocolatey (a package manager that was already installed). It was tempting to use chocolatey since it was installed, but we've had many bad experiences with it at this point. The recommended way to install mise on Windows is with scoop, so that seemed like the way to go. After this initial bootstrapping, using mise all the way seemed like the way to go.

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  This is an automatic backport of pull request Manage all CI versions through mise and use binstall #7393 done by Mergify.

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