[SPARK-40809][CONNECT][PYTHON][TESTS] Fix pyspark-connect test failed with Scala 2.13

[LuciferYang]

What changes were proposed in this pull request?

This pr simplify assertions to fix pyspark-connect test failed with Scala 2.13.

Why are the changes needed?

Fix Scala 2.13 daily test:

• https://github.com/apache/spark/actions/runs/3517345801/jobs/5895043640

Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "/__w/spark/spark/python/pyspark/sql/tests/connect/test_connect_basic.py", line 337, in test_alias
    self.assertIn("Buffer(this, is, not)", str(exc.exception))
AssertionError: 'Buffer(this, is, not)' not found in '<_MultiThreadedRendezvous of RPC that terminated with:\n\tstatus = StatusCode.UNKNOWN\n\tdetails = "[INTERNAL_ERROR] Found the unresolved operator: \'Project [id#24L AS List(this, is, not)]"\n\tdebug_error_string = "UNKNOWN:Error received from peer ipv4:127.0.0.1:15002 {created_time:"2022-11-21T19:25:59.902777537+00:00", grpc_status:2, grpc_message:"[INTERNAL_ERROR] Found the unresolved operator: \\\'Project [id#24L AS List(this, is, not)]"}"\n>'

The error message with Scala 2.13 contains List(this, is, not) instead of ArrayBuffer(this, is, not).

Does this PR introduce any user-facing change?

No, just for test

How was this patch tested?

Pass GitHub Actions

[LuciferYang]

dup with #38752, close this one