[BUGFIX] Make compile/use of nvmlDeviceGetComputeRunningProcesses() adapt to n…

[guanxingithub]

Description

This PR was filed to fix bug #20863.

Checklist

Essentials

Dick Carter finished coding on this PR
All changes are fully tested by Guanxin Li
Code is well-documented

Changes

The change reduce the possibly versioned variant of nvmlProcessInfo_t* expected
as the 3rd arg of nvmlDeviceGetComputeRunningProcesses().

Comments

This change is a backward incompatible change, without this change, mxnet can't be compiled in cuda11 450.x driver

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[ptrendx]

LGTM, thanks for the contribution!

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The conflicts with PR #20499 was resolved and put into PR #20887