RestProtocol doRefer consistency bug

[mytang0]

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Environment

• Dubbo version: 3.2
• Operating System version: Darwin
• Java version: 1.8

Steps to reproduce this issue

When referenceCountedClient.isDestroyed(), createReferenceCountedClient has no constraints.

        ReferenceCountedClient referenceCountedClient = ConcurrentHashMapUtils.computeIfAbsent(clients, url.getAddress(), _key -> {
            // TODO more configs to add
            return createReferenceCountedClient(url);
        });

        if (referenceCountedClient.isDestroyed()) {
            referenceCountedClient = createReferenceCountedClient(url);
            clients.put(url.getAddress(), referenceCountedClient);
        }

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Expected Behavior

Actual Behavior

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[AlbumenJ]

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