Consistent API to set parameters of aggregate and window functions (`AggregateExt` --> `ExprFunctionExt`) #29832

Job	Run time
cargo test (macos)	10m 10s
build with wasm-pack	2m 48s
Check cargo fmt	38s
cargo check	3m 37s
cargo test (macos-aarch64)	11m 16s
Verify MSRV (Min Supported Rust Version)	6m 38s
Verify Vendored Code	46s
cargo test (win64)	44m 11s
cargo test datafusion-cli (amd64)	3m 49s
cargo examples (amd64)	12m 37s
clippy	5m 16s
cargo doc	3m 40s
cargo test (amd64)	9m 37s
cargo test doc (amd64)	13m 49s
Run sqllogictest with Postgres runner	3m 22s
cargo test pyarrow (amd64)	2m 53s
verify benchmark results (amd64)	10m 42s
check Cargo.toml formatting	2m 56s
check configs.md is up-to-date	2m 33s
cargo test hash collisions (amd64)	9m 3s
	2h 40m 21s

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