ARROW-17903: [JS] Update dependencies

[domoritz]

I am not updating the flatbuffers dependency yet since it requires rebuilding the protobufs.

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https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-17903

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[ursabot]

Benchmark runs are scheduled for baseline = b7f9dfc and contender = 776626e. 776626e is a master commit associated with this PR. Results will be available as each benchmark for each run completes.
Conbench compare runs links:
[Finished ⬇️0.0% ⬆️0.0%] ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2
[Failed ⬇️0.56% ⬆️0.0%] test-mac-arm
[Failed ⬇️0.27% ⬆️0.0%] ursa-i9-9960x
[Finished ⬇️0.57% ⬆️0.0%] ursa-thinkcentre-m75q
Buildkite builds:
[Finished] 776626e5 ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2
[Failed] 776626e5 test-mac-arm
[Failed] 776626e5 ursa-i9-9960x
[Finished] 776626e5 ursa-thinkcentre-m75q
[Finished] b7f9dfc2 ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2
[Failed] b7f9dfc2 test-mac-arm
[Failed] b7f9dfc2 ursa-i9-9960x
[Finished] b7f9dfc2 ursa-thinkcentre-m75q
Supported benchmarks:
ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2: Supported benchmark langs: Python, R. Runs only benchmarks with cloud = True
test-mac-arm: Supported benchmark langs: C++, Python, R
ursa-i9-9960x: Supported benchmark langs: Python, R, JavaScript
ursa-thinkcentre-m75q: Supported benchmark langs: C++, Java