ARROW-16078: Upgrade bundled zlib to 1.2.12

[cyb70289]

https://nvd.nist.gov/vuln/detail/CVE-2018-25032
zlib before 1.2.12 may cause memory corruption

[github-actions]

https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-16078

[kou]

+1

[ursabot]

Benchmark runs are scheduled for baseline = 3eb1bac and contender = 4a90e39. 4a90e39 is a master commit associated with this PR. Results will be available as each benchmark for each run completes.
Conbench compare runs links:
[Finished ⬇️0.0% ⬆️0.0%] ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2
[Finished ⬇️0.13% ⬆️0.04%] test-mac-arm
[Failed ⬇️0.36% ⬆️0.0%] ursa-i9-9960x
[Finished ⬇️0.04% ⬆️0.04%] ursa-thinkcentre-m75q
Buildkite builds:
[Finished] <https://buildkite.com/apache-arrow/arrow-bci-benchmark-on-ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2/builds/424| 4a90e399 ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2>
[Finished] <https://buildkite.com/apache-arrow/arrow-bci-benchmark-on-test-mac-arm/builds/409| 4a90e399 test-mac-arm>
[Failed] <https://buildkite.com/apache-arrow/arrow-bci-benchmark-on-ursa-i9-9960x/builds/409| 4a90e399 ursa-i9-9960x>
[Finished] <https://buildkite.com/apache-arrow/arrow-bci-benchmark-on-ursa-thinkcentre-m75q/builds/419| 4a90e399 ursa-thinkcentre-m75q>
[Finished] <https://buildkite.com/apache-arrow/arrow-bci-benchmark-on-ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2/builds/423| 3eb1bac0 ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2>
[Finished] <https://buildkite.com/apache-arrow/arrow-bci-benchmark-on-test-mac-arm/builds/408| 3eb1bac0 test-mac-arm>
[Finished] <https://buildkite.com/apache-arrow/arrow-bci-benchmark-on-ursa-i9-9960x/builds/408| 3eb1bac0 ursa-i9-9960x>
[Finished] <https://buildkite.com/apache-arrow/arrow-bci-benchmark-on-ursa-thinkcentre-m75q/builds/418| 3eb1bac0 ursa-thinkcentre-m75q>
Supported benchmarks:
ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2: Supported benchmark langs: Python, R. Runs only benchmarks with cloud = True
test-mac-arm: Supported benchmark langs: C++, Python, R
ursa-i9-9960x: Supported benchmark langs: Python, R, JavaScript
ursa-thinkcentre-m75q: Supported benchmark langs: C++, Java