feat: introduce update-ipinstance-status for daemon

[hhyasdf]

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Describe what this PR does / why we need it

So we can make daemon donot update status for ipinstance. And remove status.phase field for IPInstance, which is useless.

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Codecov Report

Patch coverage has no change and project coverage change: +0.07% 🎉

Comparison is base (02d9652) 41.30% compared to head (9d724ae) 41.37%.
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Files Changed	Coverage Δ
pkg/apis/networking/v1/ipinstance_types.go	100.00% <ø> (ø)
pkg/controllers/networking/pod_controller.go	50.26% <0.00%> (ø)

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[mars1024]

/lgtm