ci(release): publish AI Simulate wheel

[jasonqinzhou]

Depends on #11986.

Summary

• build the standalone aisimulate wheel in the Dynamo runtime image that supplies release artifacts, while retaining the existing Planner-image build
• extract and stage aisimulate-*.whl with the Dynamo wheels in the Artifactory release job
• preserve AI Simulate's independent 0.1.0 version line, apply the nightly .devYYYYMMDD suffix, and validate it separately from Dynamo's 1.4.0 wheel version
• forward AISIMULATE_WHEEL_VERSION to release summaries, Slack staging output, and the downstream GitLab release pipeline

Why

#11923 added AI Simulate as a standalone distribution, but its wheel was built only for installation inside the Planner image. The release pipeline publishes wheels extracted from the separate dynamo-runtime image, so aisimulate never reached the publish path. This PR closes that gap on top of #11986 so the released wheel carries the paired AIC 0.11 dependency contract.

Validation

• pre-commit run --files .github/scripts/apply_dev_version.py .github/workflows/release.yml container/templates/wheel_builder.Dockerfile
• uv build --wheel --out-dir ../aisimulate-dist ./aisimulate
• inspected wheel metadata: aisimulate==0.1.0, aiconfigurator==0.11.0, Python 3.10-3.12
• rendered Dynamo runtime and planner Dockerfiles and confirmed both build the AI Simulate wheel
• rendered the vLLM runtime Dockerfile and confirmed it does not build the AI Simulate wheel
• exercised apply_dev_version.py on a disposable checkout and confirmed aisimulate==0.1.0.dev20991231 alongside Dynamo 1.4.0.dev20991231
• git diff --check

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