fix: Prevent crash in RAC collections when used with Suspence/useTransition

[LFDanLu]

Closes #8822

✅ Pull Request Checklist:

• Included link to corresponding React Spectrum GitHub Issue.
• Added/updated unit tests and storybook for this change (for new code or code which already has tests).
• Filled out test instructions.
• Updated documentation (if it already exists for this component).
• Looked at the Accessibility Practices for this feature - Aria Practices

📝 Test Instructions:

Test locally via http://localhost:9003/?path=/story/react-aria-components-table--table-with-suspense&args=reactTransition:!true&providerSwitcher-express=false&strict=true or on the built storybook with the same args. Clicking the button in the story shouldn't cause a crash.

Sanity check Autocomplete stories to make sure collection filtering still works

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[selrond]

Is this going to be released as a patch version?

[snowystinger]

Likely we'll release it as part of our normal cycle. We're about to start that process.

[devongovett]

It was released in a patch - v1.12.2