WIP fix invalid click event

[snowystinger]

Starting a PR just to discuss possible workarounds to the issue
#1513

I'm a little worried that this wouldn't be targeted enough, for instance, a link in a menu might close the menu in onPress, but the user might still expect the default 'onClick' behavior navigation instead of having to handle that themselves.

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[snowystinger]

Closing this so anyone else coming along can try