Improve activation backward (apache#17973)

* fix activation backward

* comments

* fix

src/operator/nn/mkldnn/mkldnn_act.cc

@@ -249,21 +249,28 @@ void MKLDNNActivationBackward(const nnvm::NodeAttrs &attrs, const OpContext &ctx
   auto input_mem = in_buffer.GetMKLDNNData();
   // We need to make sure the two inputs to eltwise_backward has the same memory
   // descriptor. Otherwise, the perf will suffer.
-  if (input_mem->get_desc() != diff_dst_memory->get_desc())
+  if (input_mem->get_desc() != diff_dst_memory->get_desc()) {
     input_mem = in_buffer.GetMKLDNNDataReorder(diff_dst_memory->get_desc());
-  MKLDNNActBackward &bwd =
-      GetActBackward(param_, ctx, in_buffer, out_buffer, *input_mem);
+  }
+
+  MKLDNNActBackward &bwd = GetActBackward(param_, ctx, in_buffer, out_buffer, *input_mem);
   MKLDNNStream *stream = MKLDNNStream::Get();
-  mkldnn_output_t diff_src_memory =
-      CreateMKLDNNMem(in_grad, bwd.bwd_pd.diff_src_desc(), req[0]);
-  mkldnn_args_map_t args = {
-    { MKLDNN_ARG_SRC, *input_mem },
-    { MKLDNN_ARG_DIFF_DST, *diff_dst_memory },
-    { MKLDNN_ARG_DIFF_SRC, *diff_src_memory.second },
-  };
-  stream->RegisterPrimArgs(bwd.GetBwd(), args);
-  CommitOutput(in_grad, diff_src_memory);
-  stream->Submit();
+  mkldnn_args_map_t args = {{MKLDNN_ARG_SRC, *input_mem},
+                            {MKLDNN_ARG_DIFF_DST, *diff_dst_memory}};
+  if (req[0] != kAddTo) {
+    // req[0] is kWriteTo or kWriteInplace
+    auto diff_src_memory =
+        const_cast<NDArray &>(in_grad).CreateMKLDNNData(bwd.bwd_pd.diff_src_desc());
+    args.insert({MKLDNN_ARG_DIFF_SRC, *diff_src_memory});
+    stream->RegisterPrimArgs(bwd.GetBwd(), args);
+    stream->Submit();
+  } else {
+    auto diff_src_memory = CreateMKLDNNMem(in_grad, bwd.bwd_pd.diff_src_desc(), req[0]);
+    args.insert({MKLDNN_ARG_DIFF_SRC, *diff_src_memory.second});
+    stream->RegisterPrimArgs(bwd.GetBwd(), args);
+    CommitOutput(in_grad, diff_src_memory);
+    stream->Submit();
+  }
 }
 
 void MKLDNNLeakyReluBackward(const nnvm::NodeAttrs& attrs,