Fix NodeLock issue

[archlitchi]

/kind bug

There is an issue about nodelock release: "Pod B may accidentally release nodelock set by Pod A, which will cause multiple pending pod on node"

This pr add a lock owner check to avoid that from happening. So the only way pod B can release a lock set by Pod A, is the lock expires.

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 14.28571% with 18 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
pkg/util/nodelock/nodelock.go	0.00%	14 Missing ⚠️
pkg/device/devices.go	0.00%	2 Missing ⚠️
pkg/device/ascend/device.go	0.00%	1 Missing ⚠️
pkg/device/nvidia/device.go	0.00%	1 Missing ⚠️

Flag	Coverage Δ
unittests	36.95% <14.28%> (-0.12%)	⬇️

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Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
pkg/scheduler/scheduler.go	34.25% <100.00%> (-0.83%)	⬇️
pkg/scheduler/score.go	64.83% <100.00%> (ø)
pkg/device/ascend/device.go	87.30% <0.00%> (ø)
pkg/device/nvidia/device.go	37.65% <0.00%> (ø)
pkg/device/devices.go	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
pkg/util/nodelock/nodelock.go	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)

... and 1 file with indirect coverage changes