[Server] Improve Request Queue, fix Event handling, add Tests

[romanett]

Proposed changes

• implement RequestQueue using Channels
• add event load test
• add event integration test verifying event from server object is received
• fix Client Reconnect Test
• fix DiagnosticsNodeManager not creating RootNotifier for Server object
• add Benchmarks for MonitoredItem.QueueEvent
• add serveral UnitTest for DiagnosticsNodeManager

Types of changes

• Bugfix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• Enhancement (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Test enhancement (non-breaking change to increase test coverage)
• Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to not work as expected, requires version increase of Nuget packages)
• Documentation Update (if none of the other choices apply)

Checklist

• I have read the CONTRIBUTING doc.
• I have signed the CLA.
• I ran tests locally with my changes, all passed.
• I fixed all failing tests in the CI pipelines.
• I fixed all introduced issues with CodeQL and LGTM.
• I have added tests that prove my fix is effective or that my feature works and increased code coverage.
• I have added necessary documentation (if appropriate).
• Any dependent changes have been merged and published in downstream modules.

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