fix(launchd): add ThrottleInterval for faster gateway restart after update

[lyr1cs]

Summary

• Add ThrottleInterval=10 to the generated launchd plist template in generate_launchd_plist()
• Add tests to verify the ThrottleInterval key and value are present in the generated plist

Problem

When running /update from Telegram on macOS, hermes update --gateway triggers a gateway restart via launchd_restart(). The gateway exits with code 75 (GATEWAY_SERVICE_RESTART_EXIT_CODE), and launchd is expected to respawn it via KeepAlive.SuccessfulExit=false.

However, without ThrottleInterval, launchd uses its default exponential back-off for process restarts. If the gateway has restarted recently (e.g. during the update cycle), launchd delays the next restart by progressively longer intervals — observed delays of 1-2 hours in practice, during which the bot is completely unresponsive.

The systemd unit already handles this correctly with RestartSec=30 and RestartForceExitStatus=75, but the launchd plist was missing the equivalent setting.

Fix

Add <key>ThrottleInterval</key><integer>10</integer> to the launchd plist template, capping the restart delay at 10 seconds. This matches the intent of the systemd RestartSec=30 (slightly faster since launchd's mechanism is simpler).

Test plan

• Existing tests pass (pytest tests/hermes_cli/test_update_gateway_restart.py — 36 passed)
• New tests verify ThrottleInterval presence and value
• Verified on macOS (Darwin 24.6.0, launchd) — gateway restarts within 10s after /update

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[teknium1]

Thanks for investigating the macOS gateway-restart failure.

Problems

• ThrottleInterval=10 does not establish the claimed faster recovery: the launchd.plist manual documents a 10-second default throttle, so the proposed value is not a new cap on exponential backoff.
• Current /update calls launchd_restart() (hermes_cli/main.py:10843). Its successful SIGUSR1 path returns without a launchctl action (hermes_cli/gateway.py:4327-4330), and the current test explicitly requires no launchctl call there (tests/hermes_cli/test_gateway_service.py:875-896). The proposed plist change does not address that active path.
• The added test file was deleted in 480dd750f2a9755935778e879c6d211d3838a5bb; this PR is also conflicting with current main.

Suggested changes

• Rework against the current /update → launchd_restart() flow and add focused coverage in tests/hermes_cli/test_gateway_service.py for the intended restart/readiness contract.

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