Add DeepSeek-V3 GB200 NVL72 optimization guide

[sbhavani]

What does this PR do ?

Description

This PR creates a new docs/discussions/ directory for in-depth guides and adds a comprehensive optimization guide for DeepSeek-V3 training on GB200 NVL72.

⚠️ For major changes (either in lines of code or in its impact), please make sure to first share discuss a design-doc with the team.

Contribution process

flowchart LR
    A[Pre-checks] --> B[PR Tests]
    subgraph Code Review/Approval
        C1[Expert Review] --> C2[Final Review]
    end
    B --> C1
    C2 --> D[Merge]

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[sbhavani]

@yanring

[yaox12]

LGTM. We have done many rounds of review.