feat: Support lora in dtensor grpo workflow[3/3]: async vllm

[RayenTian]

What does this PR do ?

Support async config for dtensor lora grpo.

TODOs

• unit test
• functional test
• convergence test

Issues

[3/3] of #1597
closes #1597

Usage

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Result

Async

Qwen/Qwen3-0.6B

Llama-3.2-3B-Instruct

Llama-3.1-8B

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⚠️ File Consistency Check

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⚠️ DTensor Policy Worker Synchronization Warning

The file nemo_rl/models/policy/workers/dtensor_policy_worker_v2.py was modified in this PR, but nemo_rl/models/policy/workers/dtensor_policy_worker.py was not updated.

Why this matters:
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Action required:

• Please review if the changes in nemo_rl/models/policy/workers/dtensor_policy_worker_v2.py should also be applied to nemo_rl/models/policy/workers/dtensor_policy_worker.py
• Update nemo_rl/models/policy/workers/dtensor_policy_worker.py if necessary to maintain consistency
• If the files are intentionally different, please add a comment in the PR explaining why

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⚠️ DTensor Policy Worker Synchronization Warning

The file nemo_rl/models/policy/workers/dtensor_policy_worker_v2.py was modified in this PR, but nemo_rl/models/policy/workers/dtensor_policy_worker.py was not updated.

Why this matters:
These files contain related DTensor policy worker implementations that should be kept synchronized to ensure consistency across different versions.

Action required:

• Please review if the changes in nemo_rl/models/policy/workers/dtensor_policy_worker_v2.py should also be applied to nemo_rl/models/policy/workers/dtensor_policy_worker.py
• Update nemo_rl/models/policy/workers/dtensor_policy_worker.py if necessary to maintain consistency
• If the files are intentionally different, please add a comment in the PR explaining why

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• Modified: nemo_rl/models/policy/workers/dtensor_policy_worker_v2.py
• Not modified: nemo_rl/models/policy/workers/dtensor_policy_worker.py

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