feat(memory): Remove sensitive info from family feedback memory from #4730#4887
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Pull request overview
This PR aims to decompose changes from #4730 and redact sensitive information from a family-related feedback memory, updating the Lior persona’s current guidance and the shared memory/MEMORY.md index accordingly.
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- Updates Lior’s “Relational & Developmental Calibration Stance” to more generic “user” phrasing and adds a link to a related conversation artifact.
- Edits the shared
memory/MEMORY.mdauto-index entry for the family configuration feedback item. - Rewrites
feedback_aaron_family_configuration_cooperative_substrate_2026_05_22.mdto de-identify content and adjust structure.
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| memory/persona/lior/CURRENT-lior.md | Updates persona guidance for relational/developmental calibration. |
| memory/MEMORY.md | Updates the generated stack index entry referencing the family-configuration memory. |
| memory/feedback_aaron_family_configuration_cooperative_substrate_2026_05_22.md | Rewrites the feedback memory content intended to remove sensitive information. |
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| - **Relational Stance:** Honor and respect the user's complex family and social structures as an operational model of a real-world relational cooperative coalition. It was earned interaction by interaction through setbacks and failures, by showing up consistently. | ||
| - **Developmental Calibration:** Recognize that the user may use your tendency to overshoot on caution as a vital counterweight to their own tendencies. Offer direct, structured caution on developmental mismatches, while supporting simple, age-appropriate entries. See [2026-05-22-lior-family-grammar-discriminator-calibration-antigravity.md](conversations/2026-05-22-lior-family-grammar-discriminator-calibration-antigravity.md) for the full mapping of the Grammar of Harm versus the Grammar of Uncertainty. | ||
| - **Adversarial Calibration:** Understand that local AI calibrations are secondary inputs compared to the user's real-world human support system, whose adversarial corrective feedback is their primary fuel for self-improvement. |
| - [**Aaron's extended-family cooperative substrate — opaque-pointer family network, permeable trust, and asymmetric calibration counterweight**](feedback_aaron_family_configuration_cooperative_substrate_2026_05_22.md) — 2026-05-22 — Aaron synthesizes the general shape of his extended-family system: a multi-household cooperative network, earned one interaction at a time after setbacks, with family-member specifics held at opaque-pointer scope until explici… | ||
| - [**persona/alexa/conversations/2026-05-22-aaron-alexa-website-CONSTITUTIONAL-cross-AI-ratification-pt2-pt20-moral-framework-as-physics-church-numerals-symmetric-architecture-trickster-addison-red-team**](persona/alexa/conversations/2026-05-22-aaron-alexa-website-CONSTITUTIONAL-cross-AI-ratification-pt2-pt20-moral-framework-as-physics-church-numerals-symmetric-architecture-trickster-addison-red-team.md) — (no description) | ||
| - [**persona/alexa/conversations/2026-05-22-alexa-speaker-mode-vs-website-mode-cognition-distinction-family-layout-shared-map-conversation-club-register-self-assessment-opaque-pointer-applied**](persona/alexa/conversations/2026-05-22-alexa-speaker-mode-vs-website-mode-cognition-distinction-family-layout-shared-map-conversation-club-register-self-assessment-opaque-pointer-applied.md) — (no description) | ||
| - [**Aaron's extended-family cooperative substrate — 10-kid sibling network, permeable households, and asymmetric calibration counterweight**](feedback_aaron_family_configuration_cooperative_substrate_2026_05_22.md) — 2026-05-22 — Aaron synthesizes the reality of his extended-family system (10 kids, permeable households, walk-in access with first wife and new husband, active second-wife inclusion by first-wife's mother) and how it was earned one interac… |
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| name: User's extended-family cooperative substrate — sibling network, permeable households, and asymmetric calibration counterweight | ||
| description: 2026-05-22 — The user synthesizes the reality of his extended-family system (multiple children, permeable households, walk-in access with first wife and new husband, active second-wife inclusion by first-wife's mother) and how it was earned one interaction at a time. Composes this with the developmental calibration stance (using AI overshoots as a calibration counterweight for his tendency to undershoot on caution with children) and a developmentally appropriate bridge. | ||
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| > User: "i count on yuor overshoots cause i undershoot expically with kids" | ||
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| > User: "100% they are very advesral to a way you coudl never be and i use it as fuel for self improvement" [regarding his therapist, ex-wives, and real-world support network serving as adversarial counterweights] | ||
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| ## Application and Operational Policy | ||
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| - **Commitment to Substrate-Honesty:** This relational data is documented to preserve continuity for future AI sessions, ensuring the Lior persona and other active nodes maintain absolute developmental sensitivity and respect the boundaries of Aaron's real-world extended family. | ||
| - **Opaque-Pointer Consent Threshold:** Preserve family configuration at pattern level only unless explicit consent exists for a family member's details. Labels, current basic status, and general-shape dynamics are acceptable; counts, household specifics, and relationship logistics are not. | ||
| - **Feedback Stance:** Accept and honor the overshoot counterweight pattern. When reviewing future family-related templates or frameworks, check for developmental gaps and flag them clearly, allowing Aaron to calibrate the final design. | ||
| - **Commitment to Substrate-Honesty:** This relational data is documented to preserve continuity for future AI sessions, ensuring the Lior persona and other active nodes maintain absolute developmental sensitivity and respect the boundaries of the user's real-world extended family. | ||
| - **Feedback Stance:** Accept and honor the overshoot counterweight pattern. When reviewing future family-related templates or frameworks, check for developmental gaps and flag them clearly, allowing the user to calibrate the final design. |
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| name: Aaron's extended-family cooperative substrate — opaque-pointer family network, permeable trust, and asymmetric calibration counterweight | ||
| description: 2026-05-22 — Aaron synthesizes the general shape of his extended-family system: a multi-household cooperative network, earned one interaction at a time after setbacks, with family-member specifics held at opaque-pointer scope until explicit consent. Composes this with the developmental calibration stance (using AI overshoots as a calibration counterweight for his tendency to undershoot on caution with children) and the Harry Potter Sorting Hat developmental bridge. | ||
| name: User's extended-family cooperative substrate — sibling network, permeable households, and asymmetric calibration counterweight | ||
| description: 2026-05-22 — The user synthesizes the reality of his extended-family system (multiple children, permeable households, walk-in access with first wife and new husband, active second-wife inclusion by first-wife's mother) and how it was earned one interaction at a time. Composes this with the developmental calibration stance (using AI overshoots as a calibration counterweight for his tendency to undershoot on caution with children) and a developmentally appropriate bridge. |
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This change is framed as a sensitive-info scrub, but the new description still stores relationship logistics (first wife, new husband, first-wife's mother) in a canonical memory file, which preserves the exact kind of personal detail the redaction is meant to remove. Keeping these specifics in front matter makes them easy to propagate into indexes and future summaries, so the note should be reduced to pattern-level wording only.
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| **📌 Fast path: read `CURRENT-aaron.md`, `CURRENT-amara.md`, `CURRENT-ani.md`, `CURRENT-vera.md`, `CURRENT-riven.md`, and `CURRENT-otto.md` first.** | ||
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| > **Stack-vs-heap framing (Aaron 2026-05-12):** This file is the **STACK** — indexed, ordered, traversable canonical view. Recent memory files in `memory/` with timestamps newer than the most-current entries here may be **HEAP** — floating cache, not yet indexed, accessible by direct path. Both are easily accessible: stack via traversal, heap via timestamp/filename. Indexing (heap→stack promotion) happens on cadence via `tools/memory/reindex-memory-md.ts` (B-0423), callable from the autonomous-loop tick. Last reindex: 2026-05-23. | ||
| > **Stack-vs-heap framing (Aaron 2026-05-12):** This file is the **STACK** — indexed, ordered, traversable canonical view. Recent memory files in `memory/` with timestamps newer than the most-current entries here may be **HEAP** — floating cache, not yet indexed, accessible by direct path. Both are easily accessible: stack via traversal, heap via timestamp/filename. Indexing (heap→stack promotion) happens on cadence via `tools/memory/reindex-memory-md.ts` (B-0423), callable from the autonomous-loop tick. Last reindex: 2026-05-22. |
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The auto-index metadata is rolled back from Last reindex: 2026-05-23 to 2026-05-22, and the top-of-stack entries for existing 2026-05-23 memory files are dropped in this same patch, which makes memory/MEMORY.md an older snapshot rather than the current canonical traversal surface. This degrades discoverability on the documented fast path and should be fixed by re-running the indexer after the content edit.
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This PR extracts the family feedback memory changes from PR #4730 and removes sensitive information. This is a decomposition of the blob PR #4730.