[HUDI-2404] Add metrics-jmx to spark and flink bundles (apache#3632)

Author: sarah-witt

packaging/hudi-flink-bundle/pom.xml

@@ -110,6 +110,7 @@
                   <include>com.twitter:bijection-core_${scala.binary.version}</include>
                   <include>io.dropwizard.metrics:metrics-core</include>
                   <include>io.dropwizard.metrics:metrics-graphite</include>
+                  <include>io.dropwizard.metrics:metrics-jmx</include>
                   <include>io.prometheus:simpleclient</include>
                   <include>io.prometheus:simpleclient_httpserver</include>
                   <include>io.prometheus:simpleclient_dropwizard</include>

packaging/hudi-spark-bundle/pom.xml

@@ -91,6 +91,7 @@
                   <include>com.twitter:bijection-core_${scala.binary.version}</include>
                   <include>io.dropwizard.metrics:metrics-core</include>
                   <include>io.dropwizard.metrics:metrics-graphite</include>
+                  <include>io.dropwizard.metrics:metrics-jmx</include>
                   <include>io.prometheus:simpleclient</include>
                   <include>io.prometheus:simpleclient_httpserver</include>
                   <include>io.prometheus:simpleclient_dropwizard</include>