fix: prevent freeze from unmounting native components (#3324)

## Description

~~No idea why the freeze worked up to 0.81, maybe there was something on
native side that prevented children from being unmounted and it is no
longer there. Our fix did not work, however. This commit fixes it.~~

~~Name of the filed has been changed here:~~

~~facebook/react-native@a36dbae48657965027e63c5bf90e4982af554581~~

@kligarski:

Starting from RN 0.82, our workaround that prevented unmounting frozen
views has stopped working - the bug is very similar to one described
[here](#2778).
The details of the workaround are available
[here](grahammendick/navigation#860).

Due to introduction of DOM APIs, `react-native` replaced
`ReactFabricHostComponent` with `ReactNativeElement`. This was hidden
behind a feature flag until [this
PR](facebook/react-native#53360) to RN 0.82. The
default value for `enableAccessToHostTreeInFabric` flag has been
switched to `true`.

In the workaround, we relied on internal value of `_viewConfig` which
has been renamed to `__viewConfig` in `ReactNativeElement`
implementation.

In this PR, we handle all names of this property.

| before | after |
| --- | --- |
| <video
src="https://github.com/user-attachments/assets/3cf7b785-a91a-4f13-beb3-b71aaabc17ca"
/> | <video
src="https://github.com/user-attachments/assets/a2bbdf01-d2a9-4808-9401-8ad12839a190"
/> |

Fixes
software-mansion/react-native-screens-labs#502.

## Changes

- add check for `__viewConfig` prop name in workaround

## Test code and steps to reproduce

Run `Test1726`. Go to screen 3 and go back via native back button.
Customization of back button on the second screen should be still
visible.

## Checklist

- [x] Included code example that can be used to test this change
- [ ] Ensured that CI passes

Author: kkafar

src/components/Screen.tsx

@@ -55,6 +55,13 @@ interface ViewConfig extends View {
       };
     };
   };
+  __viewConfig: {
+    validAttributes: {
+      style: {
+        display: boolean | null;
+      };
+    };
+  };
 }
 
 export const InnerScreen = React.forwardRef<View, ScreenProps>(
@@ -178,6 +185,11 @@ export const InnerScreen = React.forwardRef<View, ScreenProps>(
             ...ref._viewConfig.validAttributes.style,
             display: null,
           };
+        } else if (ref?.__viewConfig?.validAttributes?.style) {
+          ref.__viewConfig.validAttributes.style = {
+            ...ref.__viewConfig.validAttributes.style,
+            display: null,
+          };
         }
         setRef(ref);
       };