[Silabs] Bring Event queue based processing to wifi ncp apps (#33113)

* Pull request #1754: MATTER-3434: Port 917c soc Event queue based processing to 9116/917 ncp

Merge in WMN_TOOLS/matter from bugfix/ncp_commissioning to RC_2.3.0-1.3

Squashed commit of the following:

commit 07682286ca70636224f45a8d9823101bddbee035
Author: Junior Martinez <[email protected]>
Date:   Sat Apr 13 13:44:11 2024 -0400

    Port 917c soc Event queue based processing to 9116/917 ncp

* Restyled by whitespace

* Restyled by clang-format

* Fix build by including a header earlier in the file (temp fix).

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Co-authored-by: Restyled.io <[email protected]>

Author: jmartinez-silabs