Fix join validation when spill enabled for native

[rschlussel]

Description

ValidateStreamingJoins tests that a join node has the necessary stream properties. When spill is enabled for Java, we need the probe side to have a fixed parallelism, but native does not have that requirement.. Fix ValidateStreamingJoins to not require an extra local exchange for spilling when using native execution.

Motivation and Context

Fix query failures like "java.lang.IllegalArgumentException: Probe side needs an additional local exchange for join: 17" when running with native execution with spill enabled

Impact

Fixes query failures for some join queries when spill and native execution are both enabled.

Test Plan

new tests

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General Changes
* Fix plan validation failures for some join queries running with spill enabled when using Presto C++

[amitkdutta]

Looks great! Thasnk @rschlussel for quickly fixing this long standing issue.