chore: get update-gyp.py to work with Python >= v3.5

[rzhao271]

Checklist

• npm install && npm test passes
• tests are included
• documentation is changed or added
• commit message follows commit guidelines

Description of change

numeric_owner is a keyword-only argument in Python v3.9. When I try running the script without the change, Python gives me the following error:

Unzipping...
Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "C:\Users\raymondzhao\work\node-gyp\update-gyp.py", line 54, in <module>
    safe_extract(tar_ref, unzip_target)
  File "C:\Users\raymondzhao\work\node-gyp\update-gyp.py", line 52, in safe_extract
    tar.extractall(path, members, numeric_owner)
TypeError: extractall() takes from 1 to 3 positional arguments but 4 were given

[cclauss]

Nice! numeric_owner was added as a keyword-only argument tar.extractall() in Python 3.5.

• https://docs.python.org/3.5/library/tarfile.html