chore: upgrade tanstack version to 5

[Gabswim]

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[lukemorales]

Hi @Gabswim, thanks for your contribution.

A few things:

1. We cannot simply bump the react query version because a lot of people still are on v4, and with the breaking changes that V5 brings, it will take some time for folks, especially in a big codebase, to migrate over. So we should accept both versions.
2. Could you explain your changes in the prepare script?

[lukemorales]

Upgrade to tanstack v5 will come in a major version currently in the works