dont use fargate for plugins by default and if so add sleep to helm

[jhsinger-klotho]

• Does any part of it require special attention?
• Does it relate to or fix any issue?

closes #203

Standard checks

• Unit tests: Any special considerations?
• Docs: Do we need to update any docs, internal or public?
• Backwards compatibility: Will this break existing apps? If so, what would be the extra work required to keep them working?

[ghost]

minor: it looks like most of the if-else blocks are identical, with just the sleep quantity different. If so, you could simplify this a bit imo to make it clear exactly what's different between the two branches:

let sleepAmount = this.options.initializePluginsOnFargate ? 60 : 10;
let sleep = new local.Command(...
    create: `sleep ${sleepAmount}`,
...

[jhsinger-klotho]

ah yeah ill change this, added things in phases so just a bit of brain mush in here like this

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