Incompatibility with cuDNN 1.3.1

[GunnarFarneback]

The recently released cuDNN 1.3.1 bumps the CUDNN_jll dependency to 9.0, which provides libcudnn.so.9. This is not compatible with the ONNXRunTime CUDA extension, which needs libcudnn.so.8 to be loaded before loading libonnxruntime_providers_cuda.so. Things might still work if libcudnn.so.8 happens to be found in system libraries but that's obviously not something we want to depend on.

For future releases (until we can be compatible with CUDNN 9) we can upper bound cuDNN with

cuDNN = "~1.1, ~1.2, =1.3.0"

but I suspect we also had better retroactively cap the dependency for existing versions (0.4 and up) in the General registry. I know how to prepare a registry PR to that effect if it sounds good.

[jw3126]

Sounds good, thanks a lot! GPU support is such a pain.