You signed in with another tab or window. Reload to refresh your session.You signed out in another tab or window. Reload to refresh your session.You switched accounts on another tab or window. Reload to refresh your session.Dismiss alert
central piece: weakness of will, self-regulation failure (like buying stuff you cannot afford, eating more than you need, problematic gambling), giving in to feel good
classic negative reinforcement
getting rid of a negative stimulus (e.g. umbrella, cold)
I’m having negative emotions when I think about the task
if I avoid the task, I feel better
I reinforce it => I establish a procrastination habit
takes a lot of work to get rid of it
this is the issue, let’s start here to start making changes to the habit
Personality (way we’re made)
not easy to change, stable aspect of us
partly genetics, partly learned
you won’t procrastinate much if you
are conscientious (dutiful, self-disciplined, organized, structured)
are a self-oriented perfectionist (you do well for yourself)
have higher emotional intelligence (it’s more skill-based than trait-based)
you’re at risk of procrastination if you
are not conscientious
are impulsive (you cannot shield one intention from another)
are a socially-prescribed perfectionist (you live up to others’ people standards)
have lower emotional intelligence
you can’t push people past developmental readiness
prefrontal cortex is last part of our brain to develop (early adulthood to mature)
identity may still have to be achieved
Nature of our goals and intentions
task aversiveness
nature varies depending on where you are in the project
at all stages: boredom, frustration, resentment
at inception/planning: lack of meaning (enjoyment, fun, pleasure, passion, self-identity)
during action: lack of structure (autonomy, control, initiation, uncertainty) (where advisors can make a difference)
abstract vs concrete
concrete => it belongs to today
abstract => it belongs to tomorrow
What we think and belief
“I’m thinking I’m too stupid”
“I work better/only under pressure”
we actually make more errors
pathetic
professionals know it
we have to develop a different habit
counterfactuals
upward (if only I’ve studied longer)
downward (couldn’t have been worse)
it makes you feel better
Self-control and willpower
it is like a muscle (we just wear it out)
our stonenghe brain still thinks that sugar and fat are a good idea
need to
invest strategically limited resources
strengthen will power
Some strategies for change
move from anemic goal intentions (too vague) to implementation intentions
in situation X, I will do behaviour Y to achieve subgoal Z
when this workshop ends today, I’m going straight to the library to read 4 pages of this paper I’m struggling to read to achieve the subgoal that I need to summarize
external cue for behavior is in the environment (X)
helps on health and work
to the extent you can manage emotions, you can manage procrastination (no matter how I feel, I’m going to work)
perceive it
manage it (“I can have fear, I need not be my fear, because I can work from some other parts of my inner landscape.”, e.g. I could work from my curiosity)
understand it (you’re not going to have always positive emotions)
change it
help people see their own self-deception and be aware of your own
at inception stage, look for meaning; at action stage, make sure you have structure
break it down, take baby steps, know the next step (concrete => more urgent)
recognize when you’re making excuse (“you can do it tomorrow”, “it could have been worse”)
you can always find ways to motivate yourselves (e.g. money)
meditate helps
attention non judgementally back to where it belongs
ask yourself
is there any way I could do this now?
are you taking control of your life and having some sense of agency?
why is it important for me? (value affirmation)
know enough
your own limits / time frame
good feeling of getting things done
upward spiral (little progress fuels us)
the moment where you exercise your self-control (choose whether you are going to work or not)
your emotions
the busier you get, the more prone you’ll be to get things done