feat: added support for tedious v16 and v17 (#1174)

refs https://jsw.ibm.com/browse/INSTA-1561

- @opentelemetry/instrumention-tedious got released 0.11.0
  - but its failing, we receive a noop span from otel
  - need to investigate afterwards
- manually tested tedious v17 locally (tests skipped on CI)
- v16 and v17 work with 0.10.1

Author: kirrg001