diff --git a/enginetest/queries/script_queries.go b/enginetest/queries/script_queries.go
index d1dd30fd59..7cc540e713 100644
--- a/enginetest/queries/script_queries.go
+++ b/enginetest/queries/script_queries.go
@@ -14883,6 +14883,55 @@ select * from t1 except (
 			},
 		},
 	},
+	{
+		// https://github.com/dolthub/dolt/issues/10600
+		Name: "self-referential NOT IN subquery",
+		SetUpScript: []string{
+			"CREATE TABLE bug_repro (id VARCHAR(32) PRIMARY KEY, status VARCHAR(16), name VARCHAR(32));",
+			"INSERT INTO bug_repro VALUES ('a', 'open', 'x'), ('b', 'open', 'y'), ('c', 'open', 'z');",
+		},
+		Assertions: []ScriptTestAssertion{
+			{
+				Query: "SELECT * FROM bug_repro WHERE id NOT IN (SELECT id FROM bug_repro WHERE status='open' LIMIT 1);",
+				Expected: []sql.Row{
+					{"b", "open", "y"},
+					{"c", "open", "z"},
+				},
+			},
+			{
+				Query:    "UPDATE bug_repro SET status='closed' WHERE id NOT IN (SELECT id FROM bug_repro WHERE status='open' LIMIT 1);",
+				Expected: []sql.Row{{NewUpdateResult(2, 2)}},
+			},
+			{
+				Query:    "INSERT INTO bug_repro VALUES ('d', 'open', 'zz')",
+				Expected: []sql.Row{{types.NewOkResult(1)}},
+			},
+			{
+				Query:    "DELETE FROM bug_repro WHERE status='open' AND id NOT IN (SELECT id FROM bug_repro WHERE status='open' LIMIT 1);",
+				Expected: []sql.Row{{types.NewOkResult(1)}},
+			},
+			{
+				Query: "select * from bug_repro",
+				Expected: []sql.Row{
+					{"a", "open", "x"},
+					{"b", "closed", "y"},
+					{"c", "closed", "z"},
+				},
+			},
+			{
+				Query:    "UPDATE bug_repro SET status='delete this' WHERE id NOT IN (SELECT id FROM bug_repro WHERE status='keep this');",
+				Expected: []sql.Row{{NewUpdateResult(3, 3)}},
+			},
+			{
+				Query: "select * from bug_repro",
+				Expected: []sql.Row{
+					{"a", "delete this", "x"},
+					{"b", "delete this", "y"},
+					{"c", "delete this", "z"},
+				},
+			},
+		},
+	},
 }
 
 var SpatialScriptTests = []ScriptTest{
diff --git a/sql/analyzer/indexed_joins.go b/sql/analyzer/indexed_joins.go
index 948e7393ab..b7cdb499e4 100644
--- a/sql/analyzer/indexed_joins.go
+++ b/sql/analyzer/indexed_joins.go
@@ -172,9 +172,13 @@ func replanJoin(ctx *sql.Context, n *plan.JoinNode, a *Analyzer, scope *plan.Sco
 		return nil, err
 	}
 
-	err = convertAntiToLeftJoin(m)
-	if err != nil {
-		return nil, err
+	// TODO: updateJoinIter is not able to handle left joins wrapped in project nodes, which is what an antijoin gets
+	//  converted to. https://github.com/dolthub/dolt/issues/10614
+	if !qFlags.IsSet(sql.QFlagUpdate) {
+		err = convertAntiToLeftJoin(m)
+		if err != nil {
+			return nil, err
+		}
 	}
 
 	err = addRightSemiJoins(ctx, m)
diff --git a/sql/rowexec/join_iters.go b/sql/rowexec/join_iters.go
index 1c9daca744..c269c69b23 100644
--- a/sql/rowexec/join_iters.go
+++ b/sql/rowexec/join_iters.go
@@ -159,7 +159,7 @@ func (i *joinState) makeLeftOuterNonMatchingResult() sql.Row {
 	return resultRow
 }
 
-// makeLeftOuterNonMatchingResult returns a new sql.Row representing a row from an OUTER RIGHT join where no match was made with the left child.
+// makeRightOuterNonMatchingResult returns a new sql.Row representing a row from an OUTER RIGHT join where no match was made with the left child.
 func (i *joinState) makeRightOuterNonMatchingResult() sql.Row {
 	resultRow := make(sql.Row, i.resultRowSize())
 	copy(resultRow, i.scopeColumns())
diff --git a/sql/rowexec/update.go b/sql/rowexec/update.go
index 1d037e3a17..7a5474263e 100644
--- a/sql/rowexec/update.go
+++ b/sql/rowexec/update.go
@@ -209,12 +209,14 @@ func newUpdateIter(
 // done once.
 type updateJoinIter struct {
 	updateSourceIter sql.RowIter
-	joinNode         sql.Node
-	updaters         map[string]sql.RowUpdater
-	caches           map[string]sql.KeyValueCache
-	disposals        map[string]sql.DisposeFunc
-	accumulator      *updateJoinRowHandler
-	joinSchema       sql.Schema
+	// TODO: naming this joinNode is confusing. It's not always a join node because it could be wrapped inside another
+	//  node
+	joinNode    sql.Node
+	updaters    map[string]sql.RowUpdater
+	caches      map[string]sql.KeyValueCache
+	disposals   map[string]sql.DisposeFunc
+	accumulator *updateJoinRowHandler
+	joinSchema  sql.Schema
 }
 
 var _ sql.RowIter = (*updateJoinIter)(nil)
@@ -289,6 +291,7 @@ func (u *updateJoinIter) Next(ctx *sql.Context) (sql.Row, error) {
 }
 
 func toJoinNode(node sql.Node) *plan.JoinNode {
+	// TODO: rewrite this to use Inspect
 	switch n := node.(type) {
 	case *plan.JoinNode:
 		return n
@@ -348,6 +351,11 @@ func (u *updateJoinIter) shouldUpdateDirectionalJoin(ctx *sql.Context, joinRow,
 	}
 
 	// If the overall row fits the join condition it is fine (i.e. middle of the venn diagram).
+	// TODO: We shouldn't be evaluating the join condition on "joinRow". "joinRow" is not actually the row from the
+	//  join node but rather the row from the updateSourceIter. The join node could be wrapped in a Project node and the
+	//  indexes in the join condition would no longer match the correct columns. We also need to consider how to handle
+	//  updateJoins where a LeftOuterJoin is filtered by a null right side. JoinCond could also be nil.
+	//  https://github.com/dolthub/dolt/issues/10614
 	val, err := jn.JoinCond().Eval(ctx, joinRow)
 	if err != nil {
 		return true, err