diff --git a/crates/buzz-sdk/src/builders.rs b/crates/buzz-sdk/src/builders.rs
index 8cc9c8650a9..a6e83f19687 100644
--- a/crates/buzz-sdk/src/builders.rs
+++ b/crates/buzz-sdk/src/builders.rs
@@ -575,7 +575,9 @@ pub fn build_add_member(
     if let Some(r) = role {
         tags.push(tag(&["role", r.as_str()])?);
     }
-    Ok(EventBuilder::new(Kind::Custom(9000), "").tags(tags))
+    Ok(EventBuilder::new(Kind::Custom(9000), "")
+        .tags(tags)
+        .allow_self_tagging())
 }
 
 /// Build a NIP-29 remove-member event (kind 9001).
@@ -588,7 +590,9 @@ pub fn build_remove_member(
         tag(&["h", &channel_id.to_string()])?,
         tag(&["p", &target_pubkey.to_ascii_lowercase()])?,
     ];
-    Ok(EventBuilder::new(Kind::Custom(9001), "").tags(tags))
+    Ok(EventBuilder::new(Kind::Custom(9001), "")
+        .tags(tags)
+        .allow_self_tagging())
 }
 
 /// Build a NIP-29 leave-request event (kind 9022).
@@ -2398,6 +2402,43 @@ mod tests {
         assert!(has_tag(&ev, "p", pubkey));
     }
 
+    #[test]
+    fn remove_member_self_referential_preserves_p_tag() {
+        // Regression test for #4326: nostr 0.44 strips p-tags whose value
+        // equals the signer's pubkey unless `.allow_self_tagging()` is set.
+        let cid = uuid();
+        let signer = keys();
+        let signer_pubkey_hex = signer.public_key().to_hex();
+        let ev = build_remove_member(cid, &signer_pubkey_hex)
+            .unwrap()
+            .sign_with_keys(&signer)
+            .expect("sign");
+        assert_eq!(ev.kind.as_u16(), 9001);
+        assert!(
+            has_tag(&ev, "p", &signer_pubkey_hex),
+            "p tag targeting the signer must survive signing"
+        );
+        assert!(has_tag(&ev, "h", &cid.to_string()));
+    }
+
+    #[test]
+    fn add_member_self_referential_preserves_p_tag() {
+        // Same self-referential guarantee as remove_member (#4326).
+        let cid = uuid();
+        let signer = keys();
+        let signer_pubkey_hex = signer.public_key().to_hex();
+        let ev = build_add_member(cid, &signer_pubkey_hex, Some(MemberRole::Member))
+            .unwrap()
+            .sign_with_keys(&signer)
+            .expect("sign");
+        assert_eq!(ev.kind.as_u16(), 9000);
+        assert!(
+            has_tag(&ev, "p", &signer_pubkey_hex),
+            "p tag targeting the signer must survive signing"
+        );
+        assert!(has_tag(&ev, "role", "member"));
+    }
+
     #[test]
     fn leave_happy_path() {
         let cid = uuid();