[5.3] Cherry pick cc_shared_library commits

[learning-to-play]

Description of the bug:

Can you cherry pick the commits that fix bugs or add features to cc_shared_library including:

• Adding regular library in interface_library group of cc_shared_library
• Remove unnecessary files from the runfiles of cc_shared_library

What's the simplest, easiest way to reproduce this bug? Please provide a minimal example if possible.

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Which operating system are you running Bazel on?

Linux, macOS, Windows

What is the output of bazel info release?

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If bazel info release returns development version or (@non-git), tell us how you built Bazel.

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What's the output of git remote get-url origin; git rev-parse master; git rev-parse HEAD ?

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Have you found anything relevant by searching the web?

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Any other information, logs, or outputs that you want to share?

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[meteorcloudy]

I guess the commits we need to cherry-pick are d7a9a37 and 26d882f.

/cc @oquenchil Can you please confirm this?

[oquenchil]

Yes, I can confirm!

[learning-to-play]

It seems cc_shared_library is using the actual library rather than the interface library to link on Windows. Is this something that needs to be fixed on the Bazel size? If so, can you cherry pick that one, too?

[ckolli5]

Closed #15754