useReadQuery shows old cache contents in combination with useTransition and @defer

[phryneas]

Issue Description

1. visit https://apollo-client-nextjs-experimental-nextjs-app-support-2qcn8r5ns.vercel.app/rsc/dynamic/PreloadQuery/defer-queryRef-useReadQuery and wait for data to load in
2. click "refetch" and wait for data to load in
3. click "refetch" again and see that during loading, deferred data from 1. that has been overwritten by 2. shows up briefly

Link to Reproduction

apollographql/apollo-client-nextjs#390

Reproduction Steps

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@apollo/client version

3.11.10