ARROW-18044: [Java] upgrade error-prone library version to 2.16 (#14423)

Upgrades Error prone to eliminate intermittent issues working with IntelliJ IDEA

Authored-by: Larry White <[email protected]>
Signed-off-by: Sutou Kouhei <[email protected]>

Author: lwhite1

pom.xml

@@ -44,7 +44,7 @@
     <forkCount>2</forkCount>
     <checkstyle.failOnViolation>true</checkstyle.failOnViolation>
     <errorprone.javac.version>9+181-r4173-1</errorprone.javac.version>
-    <error_prone_core.version>2.13.1</error_prone_core.version>
+    <error_prone_core.version>2.16</error_prone_core.version>
     <maven-compiler-plugin.version>3.10.1</maven-compiler-plugin.version>
   </properties>